39 thoughts on “Shaykh Ibn Baaz on Love and Hatred for the Sake of Allaah”

1. just to check my understanding, we are supposed to hate the person aswell right? (the disbeliever) however when it comes to the believer we only hate their actions of disobedience but we love them for their islaam and emaan. But for the disbeliever we hate their actions and them as people, unrestrictedly correct? and with upright believers we love them unrestrictedly?

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   • We hate the disbelievers and we love the believers. We hate the disobedient Muslims according to their level of disobedience, and we love them for their level of of obedience. ‘Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) was going between Safaa and Marwah (making ‘Umrah) when a long-bearded man, a mu’ath-thin of the Haram, said to him, “O Abaa ‘Abdir-Rahmaan! I love you for the sake of Allaah!” He replied, “But I hate you for the sake of Allaah!” His companions blamed him for that, but he defended himself, saying: “He goes overboard in (calling) the athaan, and he takes money for it!” (Musannaf of ‘Abdur-Razzaaq, 1/481) Al-Albaanee authenticated it in as-Silsilah as-Saheehah (1/104).

   • BaarakAllaahu feekum.

     What was mentioned in the question above about only hating someone’s evil actions and not the person himself, does this apply to the Muslim ruler? JazaakAllaahu khayraa.

   • There’s also a discussion regarding the athar of ibn ‘Umar – radiyAllaahu ‘anhumaa – which you mentioned above, by Shaykh ‘Alee Ridaa (hafidhahullaah) here: http://www.albaidha.net/vb/showthread.php?t=18287 In it, he brings its different sources and then ends with a comment.

     JazaakAllaahu khayraa.

2. Such a strong word hate – how dare I hate a living breathing soul Allah(swt) created ….believer or non believer….and who is not sinful in this world. As for disbelievers I hate them really ???? ….when only Allah(swt) guides His human creation.

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   • That just about sums up the Christian belief. However, Muslims are different in that they love and hate for the sake of their Lord. Its actually the firmest handhold of faith (loving and hating) as described by the Messenger of Allaah (may Allaah raise his rank and grant him peace). If you are a Christian, Naheed, you are cordially invited to accept Islaam and worship the Creator and Lord of Jesus. If you are a Muslim, then its time to take your religion from the Messenger of Allaah (may Allaah raise his rank and grant him peace), not from popular opinion. And Allaah knows best.

   • After reading “Talbis Iblis” of Ibn al-Jawzi from cover to cover (alhamdulillah), I have found that this emotion-driven concept (taking “how can I hate something Allah created?” as an unrestricted foundation) has also come from the angle of the Sufis (variants of which are widespread throughout the Muslim world in our time), who share the same philosophies as the Christians.

   • There appears to be another misconception within this comment relating to the last statement “when only Allah guides His human creation”, alluding to the fact that every disbeliever who is still alive is a potential believer, so how can one hate them if they have a chance of being guided to Islam?

     With this, the response is that our love and hate for the sake of Allah is something dynamic within this world. In other words, we inwardly hate a disbeliever for the sake of Allah WHILE they are upon disbelief, such that we do not love them until AFTER they have accepted Islam. This is why the Prophet (peace be upon him) guided us to be moderate in our love and hatred for the sake of Allah, as we never know which believer (currently) may leave Islam (may Allah protect us from this) in the future and vice versa for a non-believer (currently) who may accept Islam in the future.

     We do NOT limit hatred for the sake of Allah to the hereafter for those who are known to have died upon disbelief, based on imposing opinions over a limited set of evidences from Qur’an and Sunnah (e.g. unrestrictedly applying the “let Allah be the judge” slogan that we hear from the likes of Yasir Qadhi). Rather in this world, the Sunnah guides us to judge certain affairs based on what is apparent according to the more complete usage of the Qur’an and Sunnah, putting everything in their proper places.

     NB: We do NOT impose the connotations that the liberals in the West put on the terms ‘love’ and ‘hatred’ in the context of loving and hating for the sake of Allah. Kind and just treatment (smiling at a common non-Muslim and saying “how are you”, possibly helping them in a permissible worldly matter) does NOT necessitate love for the sake of Allah. Likewise, hate for the sake of Allah does NOT mean giving every non-Muslim the cold shoulder or treating them harshly. We have to accept that the way OUR religion works is different to the way the philosophies of the non-Muslims work.

3. Assalaamu alaykum warahmatullaahi wabarakaatuhu. May Allaah preserve you and increase your life in obedience to Him. Dear brother, please correct me if I’m wrong. “We hate the person, not just his sinful actions. We hate the disbeliever and the innovator as a whole. But the believer, we hate him according to the level of the sin.”

   Jazakallaahu khayran.

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   • Wa ‘alaykas-Salaamu wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuh. I would add: “We love the believer for the level of his obedience, and we hate the sinful Muslim according to the level of his disobedience.” Also, an innovator is hated based on the level of his opposition to the Sunnah. And Allaah knows best.

4. Some people say, “We should hate disbelief, but not the disbelievers themselves as people. We should hate beliefs and actions, but not people.” How would you respond?

   I think this is correct. So long as the disbelievers is in not believing in Allah and Messenger, peace be upon him, We shall give them dawah and hope they’ll find the truth. We never know when Allah might give him Hidayah and make him/her better than us.

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   • Read the comments above, and then read the following article, as well as the comments below it: https://www.bakkah.net/en/regarding-those-who-say-hatred-is-not-from-islam-shaykh-abdur-rahmaan-muhyiud-deen.htm The role model set by Allaah for us to follow has more right than opinions.

5. Explaining Al Wala wal Bara, some scholars or muslims preach to muslims to hate non-muslims for the sake of Allah. I find, from my experience, such scholars inactive or very less inactive in field of da’wah of islam to non-muslim; which is a basic responsibility on every muslims specially scholars.

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   • There was this one caller to Islam who would say: “I am free of YOU and what you worship… There is hatred and animosity between us and you until you believe in Allaah…” What do you think of this approach, Abu Maryam, in light of your experience?

   • May Allaah bless Abu Maryam with understanding in the Religion, perhaps he realized where this question was going to lead him (Quran 60:4), and became too shy to respond.

6. Assalaamu’alaykum

   I struggle to hate non-Muslims that have a good character and are well-mannered and polite etc. Am I sinful for this and how do I develop this animosity towards them?

   Jazaakallahu Khayr

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   • Wa ‘alayk as-salaamu wa rahmatullaah. You just need to re-invest in learning about gratitude and good character. Take this example, if you sponsored an orphan, spending a huge chunk of your salary on him, from his birth until his college education, and then assisted him in getting married, and then he turned around one day and said to you: “You’ve never done anything for me, I don’t even recognize you in my life. I will never lift a finger to do a single thing for you.” Would it be possible to say he has “good character” and he is “well-mannered” in how he responded to the kindness of others? Or is he an ingrate? Well, Allaah has bestowed every type of blessing on people, yet they turn to him with denial of his blessings, and even mockery and disdain. Did you forget that true manners and good character are firstly between the person and his Lord? The question seems to overlook this reality. And Allaah knows best.

   • Often, this mentality (overlooking the rights of Allah) originates from the effects of secularism, which is built upon downplaying the significance of Allah and His Religion (putting that to the side), and then centralising the rights of the people in worldly matters as the default priority. Of course, when we are brought up in a secular society, our minds have been subconsciously conditioned to be wired in this manner, even if we are unaware of it. Refer to Abu Iyaad’s lecture “Atheism: Its Causes and its Cures” on AlBaseerah Bradford, and this will become clearer to you.

7. “Verily the strongest handhold of faith is that you love for the sake
   of Allah and that you hate for the sake of Allah.” [Ahmad 4/286, authentic]

   Does this mean love and hate for the sake of Allah is the from the greatest of the 60+ branches of eemaan? And would that also mean it is also one of the hardest to achieve?

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   • These are the ‘urwahs (handholds), like knots or loops in a rope that you hang on to, not just branches of faith. The Prophet (sallallaahu ‘alayhe wa sallam) spoke of these handholds in the hadeeth of Aboo Umaamah collected by Imaam Ahmad: (( لتنقضن عرى الإسلام عروة عروة فكلما انتقضت عروة تشبث الناس بالتي تليها فأولهن نقضا الحكم وآخرهن الصلاة )), meaning: “The ‘urwahs of Islaam shall surely become undone one after the next. Every time an ‘urwah is undone, the people grab hold of the next one. The first to be undone is the ruling, the last is prayer.”

     Remember that the Deen of Allaah has been mentioned as a rope (habl), and these important aspects are the handholds, or loops that are held on to. The firmest ‘urwah is towheed ( فمن يكفر بالطاغوت ويؤمن بالله فقد استمسك بالعروة الوثقى لا انفصام لها ), which means: “Whosoever rejects taaghoot (all things worshipped besides Allaah) and believes in Allaah has grabbed hold of the firmest handhold which shall never loosen” [2:256], and this towheed, this knot or loop in the rope, includes loving and hating for the sake of Allaah, as mentioned in the hadeeth you are asking about. And Allaah knows best.

   • Subhaanallah this is very interesting. Is there some book or resource that explains eemaan in detail going through its pillars, levels, branches and handholds etc?

   • Why is there a difference between the firmest handhold (tawheed) and the strongest handhold (loving and hating)? Isn’t firmness the same or similar to strength?

     Can you elaborate on the two Arabic words for ‘firmest’ and ‘strongest’?

   • There are both from the same root ( أوثق / الوثقى ), they both mean firmest/strongest, or the most binding. Loving and hating for the sake of Allaah is one of the essential components of Laa-ilaaha-ill-Allaah, review a good explanation of the seven conditions of Laa-ilaaha-ill-Allaah. And Allaah knows best.

8. Can there be any love towards a disbeliever for some good he might have such as he is charitable?

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   • You can appreciate their good, thank them for it, repay it, base your interactions with them upon it, yet loving is a religious act of worship, not directed to non-Muslims, and Allaah knows best.

9. “We love people according to their obedience to Allah and hate them according to their disobedience. This translates to love/hate for the action as well as for the doer of the action.”

   Is this understanding correct? Please correct it if I have erred.

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   • Yes, this is correct.

10. Assalamu alaykum

    From where does the ideology of “hating the sin, not the sinner” originate?

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    • Wa ‘alayk as-salaamu wa rahmatullaah. At the root of the problem is people speaking about Islam upon sheer ignorance, combined with misguided ambitions to please non-Muslims or at least not offend them. Perhaps, some influence from the religion of Christianity plays a part as well. Allaah knows best.

11. Salamalaikum
    Only when the Scholars of the main body of Muslims point out confirming the grave errors of any Speaker, my inner hatred of that speaker develops, automatically, although I used to love him for Islam sake just before the information. Is this Right?
    Also I have one question—In my locality there is no nearby Mosque where Innovated practices like Ijtemai -dua soon after the salat, aloud ” Fatiha” etc. are not done, So I go to one of the nearby Mosque where innovated practices are on, only to catch up the Fajar Prayer of Congregation, although I hate their Innovations. Am I doing Right?
    Please Eloborate

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12. As salaamu alaykum ustad.

    Just wanted to confirm, may Allah bless me and you:

    Q1. In above words of our shaykh bin baaz rahimahullah, we understand we have to “love wholeheartedly” people of imaan and taqwaa and we have to “hate wholeheartedly” people of kufr and shirk akbar. In arabic i read the original words as and allah knows best, love with complete love…… Hate with complete hate respectively.

    Either ways, do i understand “love wholeheartedly” to mean – “to love people of imaan and taqwaa WITHOUT any hate accompanying this love whatsoever”;
    And “hate wholeheartedly” to mean – “hate people of kufr and shirk akbar WITHOUT any love accompanying this hate whatsoever” ?

    Is this understanding of above words correct?

    Q2. Two disobedient muslims, a and b. Person b is even more disobedient than a and person a has more islam than b. So is my love for a more than for b and hate for b more than for a?

    جزاك الله خيرا for your time.

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13. السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

    What I gather from this article and your replies in the comments is that having religious love for non-Muslims and people of innovation is not allowed. What about a natural love that stems from matters aside from religion? An example would be a relative. You can have a non-Muslim relative who treats you as good as any other relative and while you hate his disbelief and call him to Islam, and you’re ready to stand in opposition to him for Allah’s Sake at any given moment, you can’t help but feel a natural love for him for the level of closeness you may have with him. Correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t this the type of love the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم had for Abu Taalib? Jazaak Allahu khayran.

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    • وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

      Your understanding is correct. May Allah bless you.

    • I have another question not related to the topic, forgive me but I really need an answer to this. How do we understand the story of Musa عليه السلام and Khidr, specifically the part where Khidr killed the boy. I hear enemies of Islam use this verse and while I have no problem accepting it and believing in it, I’d like some help in understanding it as the scholars of Sunnah did.

    • He did what would normally be considered an evil thing, a terrible crime, murder. This is why Moosaa objected. Yet, it was revealed in the story that He only did that with specific instructions from Allah’s Revelation. It was an exceptional case, which could only be a Prophet acting upon revelation. The last Prophet has died (may Allah raise his rank and grant him peace), so no one has revelation, so no one can kill anyone claiming it was to prevent what would have happened. Strangely, the non-Muslims tend to agree that “IF I COULD GO BACK IN TIME, I WOULD KILL HITLER…” meaning they would kill someone who had not yet committed his crimes. That is merely Science Fiction “WHAT IF” scenarios about time travel, yet they say that, and then criticize Islam because of an actual event where divine revelation was acted upon to prevent actual tragedies! Very interesting…

14. As Salamu ‘alaikum akhi. If a Muslim is bored, is it permissible for him to play online games, that are permissible to play, with the kuffar while still hating their kufr?

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    • Wa ‘alaykum as-Salaamu wa rahmatullaah. There are many online games that one can play which can build skills and intelligence, by the Permission of Allah. Look for games free of any polytheism or magic, games that do not have images of people or animals, games that have options to turn off the music, games that include critical thinking skills (i.e. puzzle games, problem solving games, etc.). games that do not have any gambling elements or other forbidden themes. And play them for a few minutes, not for hours. Do not become addicted to a game and waste hours and hours playing it. Do not allow the game to take the place of or hinder you from any duties or virtuous deeds. As for playing with non-Muslims, then there is no need for this. And Allah knows best.

15. Assalamu alaykum,

    The Christians often say “God loves you” when calling to their religion.

    What is the correct Islamic understanding regarding this? Is it correct to say Allah loves all humans? Does Allah love the sinful Muslim?

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    • Wa ‘alaykum as-Salaamu wa rahmatullaah. We cannot speak about what Allah loves without evidence. Allah loves sincerity and obedience, yet since we cannot prove that a person has that, we cannot say that Allah loves a specific individual, without textual evidence. Allah loves the pious, the equitable, the patient, those who purify themselves. We say those things in general, without saying Allah loves So-and-So. Then, we also affirm that Allah hates disbelief and the disbelievers, in general. Modern day Christians have removed this attribute of our Lord from their beliefs and speech, even though it is found in their book. They say things like: “God is love, and He does not hate…” yet they easily speak about Allah without knowledge, and this is one of those occasions. Quite simply: Our Lord and Creator loves and hates, in a manner that befits His perfection and majesty, not like the deficient love and hatred of the people.